Powerhouse mentor, trauma-informed coach, keynote speaker, podcast host, and (yes) stand-up comedian — helping driven, intense people turn pain into purpose and build a fully integrated life.

For a long time, my greatest strength and my greatest liability were the same thing: intensity.
I’m wired to go all-in. For years that energy had nowhere healthy to go, and it cost me — in my health, my relationships, and my peace. The turning point wasn’t some overnight transformation. It was realizing I didn’t need to become a smaller, “calmer” version of myself. I needed to give that intensity a direction and a system.
So I built one. I started treating my life like a game worth playing — leveling up health, wealth, wisdom, and relationships together instead of sacrificing three to max out one. That framework is the heart of everything I do now, and it eventually became the app I built, LifeQuest.
My work goes far beyond healing from toxic relationships. It’s about helping people reclaim their confidence, channel their energy, and create real opportunity — through coaching, speaking, writing, a podcast, and a thriving online community of more than 180,000 people. I blend lived experience and business insight with humor, because the heavy stuff goes down easier with a laugh.
If you’re ambitious, a little obsessive, and tired of feeling like your potential is leaking out the sides — you’re my people. Let’s build you a game you actually want to win.
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